"HARNESS" column for Beefyboyz.com - October 2003

Basic Rope Bondage Tips

This month's question is: "My boyfriend and I have found that we like to tie each other up during sex. We're both new to this and use whatever is to hand (ties, belts, scarves etc.). Do you have any advice for bondage beginners? P.S. we're not looking to spend a lot of money."

There's nothing like the sensation of being completely bound whilst other things are happening to you. There are lots of different materials you can use to tie each other up: metal, rope, canvas, rubber, plastic wrap, bandages, straps and webbing - but if you're new to bondage the cheapest, easiest and most flexible material to use is rope. Here's some advice for basic rope bondage (the Top is the one doing the tying up).

There is more information on bondage the SM Gays website (click on "Information Sheets").

Have fun, and look after yourselves and the people you play with.

John Pendal
International Mr Leather 2003

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