"HARNESS" column for Beefyboyz.com - February 2004

My boyfriend is into SM but I don't like pain

This month's question is: "I know that my boyfriend likes SM (sado-masochist) sex, but I'm scared to try it because I don't like pain. What should I do?"

I have five answers to your question which will hopefully put your mind at ease:

Above all I think you should talk to your boyfriend. If he cares about you he will understand your concerns.

Have fun, and look after yourselves and the people you play with.

John Pendal
International Mr Leather 2003

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